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Post by offduty on Apr 17, 2019 16:26:50 GMT -5
I've heard some question what's going on with me. I'm sorry I haven't been able to give very many of you an answer because it just hurts to bad to explain it over and over. For those of you who I've told I just can't do this and logged out. I'm really sorry for that. It was nothing you said or did. I listen to music twenty-four seven. Sometimes there are songs that come on that reminds me of my boy Shorty who was murdered the morning of January 1st this year. So please don't take it personal and maybe I shouldn't even log in, but this game and the people who take the time to rp with me, it is what keeps me going. Those smiles, and yes sometimes laughter it brings me are worth more than gold. If I've hurt anyone's feelings, or made any of you mad I'm really sorry from the bottom of my heart. Every day is a struggle to just breath and I'm not sure how I'm going to get through all the court dates and I pray one day to get the answer as to why this had to happen. That this will one day find some sort of closer.
Thank you again for those who stop long enough to say a simple hello or spends hours helping enrich my story lines, and brings life to my characters. This is a wonderful community of family and friends. Love you all.
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Post by grivel on Apr 17, 2019 17:35:29 GMT -5
Take it one day at a time. We will be here for you.
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woogieboogie
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Post by woogieboogie on Apr 17, 2019 18:16:16 GMT -5
My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
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Post by ShadowCatJen on Apr 17, 2019 18:29:30 GMT -5
*big hugs* If anyone is upset at you for any of that then they need to get their priorities in life straight. Keep your head up and remember to breathe. We'll be here.  |
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Post by nemusator on Apr 18, 2019 3:06:08 GMT -5
My condolences Off Duty. You do not have to explain anything to anyone. I enjoy our RP and I'm privileged to know a person like you.
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Post by Defunct Fiddlesticks on Apr 18, 2019 3:36:43 GMT -5
Still here, still listening - you know where I am 💖
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Post by Animayhem on Apr 20, 2019 11:25:17 GMT -5
*big hugs* If anyone is upset at you for any of that then they need to get their priorities in life straight. Keep your head up and remember to breathe. We'll be here. This |
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Post by offduty on Jun 11, 2019 1:04:44 GMT -5
www.wandtv.com/news/woman-accused-of-killing-boyfriend-with-glass-to-meet-with/article_fc9add28-8baa-11e9-b3c3-8fa263658105.html?fbclid=IwAR1pOevo8XNzSr6Vbj2GhivTlzDxYsVmeAvSUsZzWZetPDquEc4Oa-VMNfQPlease keep his extended family, family, and friends in your prayers that justice will be done. Not a day goes by that this horrible crime has not affected all of us. Not a day goes by that we don't think about the life she took away from us way to early. Not a morning goes by that I don't question why did this have to happen he was moving home Jan 6th. Why couldn't he have been given just 6 more days and he would be safe here and still alive. What I wouldn't give for just one more smile, one more hug, one more chance to hear you sing, one more chance to say I love you son, one more chance to hear "don't worry about me mama, I'm doing great" or "I love you mama." If there is one thing I've learned from all of this. Tomorrow is no guarantee for any of us. Young or old it can end at the snap of a finger and we may never get the chance to say all the things we wanted to say. My message to all who read this please hold those you love and cherish close. Tell them how much they mean to you. How much you love them. Remember to laugh together for one day that could be ripped from you. Remember to forgive before it's to late. I'm taking that time right now to say I love you all.
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Post by Southpaw on Jun 11, 2019 4:56:41 GMT -5
I’m just finding this now. Offduty, I’m truly shocked and horrified this happened to someone you love. Wishing you the best in all things.
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Post by offduty on Jan 9, 2020 23:08:23 GMT -5
Just after the 1 year anniversary of Shorty's death I received the call that one of my oldest and dearest friends passed away in his sleep. Some of you might remember when I came to this server over 10 years ago there was a group of us that came here together. One of those in our group was Sabastian Alexandre Sainte. He played many different Characters some of those were Gulnar, Amand'ur, Sebastian, and Alex just to name a few I remember off the top of my head. He also played one of the seven members of the silent reign. His log was SilentReign3, and he also used the log in Gulnar, and Alex.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 10, 2020 10:07:32 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss. Losing friends is never an easy thing to deal with.
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Post by nemusator on Jan 10, 2020 10:26:45 GMT -5
May he rest in peace.
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Post by ShadowCatJen on Jan 10, 2020 11:21:46 GMT -5
Sending you virtual hugs. As said, losing a friend is never easy. Sorry for your loss.
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Post by Muse on Jan 10, 2020 13:56:34 GMT -5
My condolences for your loss offduty, I remember him as a player and thank you for remembering him now. So sorry for the loss. |
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Post by offduty on Jan 28, 2020 17:53:56 GMT -5
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Post by Animayhem on Jan 28, 2020 20:26:49 GMT -5
My condolences and what a rough time. What character(s) did you sister play? It is painful but be thankful they were in your life and your theirs Positive healing vibes to you and your family
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Post by Warlord on Jan 28, 2020 20:43:05 GMT -5
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Post by nemusator on Jan 29, 2020 3:32:15 GMT -5
My condolences. Love and support to you.
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Post by woogieboogie on Jan 29, 2020 6:11:38 GMT -5
You and yours are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Post by ShadowCatJen on Jan 29, 2020 12:21:18 GMT -5
You have my condolences, OffDuty.
I can completely understand why you'd go on hiatus. Just know that we'll be here when you're ready to come back.
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Post by Raven on Jan 29, 2020 16:22:50 GMT -5
Oh my, so many tragic events and all one after another. My condolences to you for all the tragic happenings. Best wishes and we will keep your spot under the tree safe when your ready to return
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Post by grivel on Jan 29, 2020 21:08:32 GMT -5
What a rough patch. We know you will get through it and we will be here when you are ready.
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Post by offduty on Feb 4, 2020 12:57:20 GMT -5
Please do not donate. The funds have already been raised and everything is paid for. Thank you to those who made private donations.
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Post by offduty on Dec 28, 2020 1:30:30 GMT -5
Sorry I haven't been around much for the past couple of months. Been in a really dark place and not wanting to inflict my pain and darkness on others who have been supportive of me. In Nov all the court trails came to end with the woman who stabbed my dear sweet Shorty in the chest only getting 4 years and time served means she won't even come close to that. How can they let her go with serving one year of mandatory supervised release? I'm having a really hard time understanding how she could of gotten away with it, with basically a slap on the wrist when she took a life. www.wandtv.com/news/woman-who-killed-boyfriend-with-glass-shard-sentenced-to-prison/article_08796b68-22dc-11eb-bc0a-1b96d6718191.html |
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Post by koffie on Dec 28, 2020 2:12:27 GMT -5
*hug* this really sucks... take your time, we'll be around to welcome you back among us when you feel like being around |
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Post by offduty on Dec 30, 2020 16:07:52 GMT -5
I’m really in my feelings today. Trying to stay positive but knowing she gets out of jail tomorrow and gets to go home to her family makes me so mad. My Shorty will never get to come home to us. While she gets to love the rest of her life Shorty lost his. Please if you have a few mins say a prayer for all of us these next couple days. 364 days in county jail just doesn't feel like justice to any of his family or friends.
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