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Sept 14, 2015 9:28:30 GMT -5
Post by commanderrpgxvii on Sept 14, 2015 9:28:30 GMT -5
I'm leaving the server. The reasons are: I'm not having fun; there's a lack of kindness, good faith, honesty and moral decency in the players I've met; I've been judged and used for what I appear, rather than for what I am; I've not made any friendships; English language.
There is only one reason for which I'd stay: tangible staff and administration, sympathetic. But only one reason facing all the others is really a resounding defeat.
I'm sorry for those who I'm leaving behind: Crystal_flower (Freya) and Joe.
I can't stand it any more, bye.
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Sept 14, 2015 19:47:00 GMT -5
Post by Pandora on Sept 14, 2015 19:47:00 GMT -5
PM sent.
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Sept 14, 2015 19:58:49 GMT -5
Post by mysticalkas on Sept 14, 2015 19:58:49 GMT -5
I for one am sorry to see you go. I am not sure of the character, but if this is the situation I am sorry for that. If my character, Amilith (elf) was one of the reasons, please post or send a PM so that we can talk about it, it could be some misunderstandings considering the "race" of characters and how they are perceived by one another. And if you just want to talk it over with another player, please feel free to PM me as well, even if my character was not an issue. Hope you get everything sorted out and return soon.
(please note I am in college so give me a day or two to get back with you)
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Sept 14, 2015 20:15:07 GMT -5
Post by Malzaron on Sept 14, 2015 20:15:07 GMT -5
Malzaron would mad and probably hunt you down with a mass of undead....
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Sept 14, 2015 20:17:59 GMT -5
Post by Malzaron on Sept 14, 2015 20:17:59 GMT -5
and old man gale might rise from the dead...
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Post by Calliope on Sept 14, 2015 21:46:25 GMT -5
I hear ya. .
I Played here over a year ago and left for very similar reasons. . I came back and tried again this time having much better luck the second time around. My advice, give the server a break and than come back in a few months and try again. It is a pretty good server to be fair. . There is just a lot of erm.. not so friendly folk but hey the world is full of people like that. Inside or outside of a fantasy setting lol. It can be a struggle to find the good but its out there.
Best of luck, Calliope.
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Sept 15, 2015 4:49:38 GMT -5
Post by ... on Sept 15, 2015 4:49:38 GMT -5
By all means take a break and come back later but try not to do what I did, which was to keep giving this place another chance over and over and over for years and years, each time getting burnt and hurt. This is a great module and there are some great players but overall there are much nicer communities out there. Don't accept being shat on too many times because it's not worth the pain.
<3
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Tania
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Sept 15, 2015 5:50:31 GMT -5
Post by Tania on Sept 15, 2015 5:50:31 GMT -5
Take a break and come back! My first few days here it was like I met all the worst people the internet has to offer; from tells full of hate to Fake RP totally ripping apart my whole character. But now I've found some truly awesome players, and I even met your Hermit, and I look forward to seeing you back! (I'll even have an Elf by then Tania
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Post by DM Grizwald on Sept 15, 2015 7:43:10 GMT -5
My first few days here it was like I met all the worst people the internet has to offer; from tells full of hate to Fake RP totally ripping apart my whole character. I would suggest bringing forth this sort of behaviour to the dm team. This misconduct shouldn't be tolerated.
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Sept 15, 2015 7:54:31 GMT -5
Post by Syd's Blue Sky on Sept 15, 2015 7:54:31 GMT -5
If you guys are having trouble with anything of this sort it's something that concerns us as a community.
This is the sorta thing that need to be brought to the attention of our PAs and DMs sooner rather than later if it's going to get resolved. I honestly believe that most negative feelings result less from malicious intent than from misunderstanding. People generally undervalue the worth of a simple conversation, and I've almost always found people to be surprisingly reasonable in honest conversations about this sort of stuff. These conversations need to take place for this to happen.
I'm sorry for your negative experiences, and sorry that they weren't able to be resolved.
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Post by Grimnir Gurnison on Sept 15, 2015 8:34:00 GMT -5
Wow I'm really sorry to hear about bad early experiences. If you decide to give it another shot give me a shout and I'll break out one of my lowbies or roll out a new guy to travel with you.
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Post by thevandals on Sept 15, 2015 14:56:51 GMT -5
You've been rolling with the wrong group comrad. Send me a PM, Grimnir and I will show you how fun the server can be.
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Post by Dobian on Sept 15, 2015 14:57:21 GMT -5
I have not been very active lately but I play a dwarf monk and would be happy to do some monk-ish rp with you.
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Post by marredwolf on Sept 15, 2015 16:03:24 GMT -5
I remember you, the elf hermit.
between Wurek and Freya we are always polite and inclined to include anyone wanting to join up. I think we both like politeness alot, and its well rewarded within our group. Freya, who helped you out, was having similar problems. i dont share the same experience, im a loner at heart anyway, but i love to get a good group going.
So...you are always invited to join us (as soon as we can get you to level 6, and let me know if you need help) and anyone else for that matter who is having problems finding a group to play with. as of now we are running a CLN/Good generally speaking you are dealing with a paladin fyi. i not saying dont use your evil pc to join us, im just saying keep it secret IC at least. we ask to everyone involved at least pretend to respect one another.
im sorry to hear that rednails had the same problem. at the time she was on i was running my Pale Master around and could have helped quite a bit.
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docofmadness
Proven Member
a dwarf a elf and a ork walk into a bar........... wait that makes no sense
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Oct 8, 2015 22:39:03 GMT -5
via mobile
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Post by docofmadness on Oct 8, 2015 22:39:03 GMT -5
I always keep a few lower lvl chats around to help out new players. So if you see me log on sent me a shout and I will gladly switch and help you out. ? unless you are a elf. aLL ELFS must die
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Jan 18, 2023 14:19:18 GMT -5
Post by commanderrpgxvii on Jan 18, 2023 14:19:18 GMT -5
I'm glad I left then, and I'm glad I've left again now. I don't know what kind of people are interested to be here anymore.
All I wished was to find a common space (not a "safe space", that's for the pusillanimous) to share. Instead what I found is absence of humor, deprivation of light-heartedness, and bitterness.
This is not discouraging me from looking for more people I could join, because ultimately hope dies for last and everyone is different.
You just added more SH1T to the SH1T catalogue I have at home.
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Post by DM Hawk on Jan 18, 2023 14:33:33 GMT -5
I'm glad I left then, and I'm glad I've left again now. I don't know what kind of people are interested to be here anymore.
All I wished was to find a common space (not a "safe space", that's for the pusillanimous) to share. Instead what I found is absence of humor, deprivation of light-heartedness, and bitterness. This is not discouraging me from looking for more people I could join, because ultimately hope dies for last and everyone is different.
You just added more SH1T to the SH1T catalogue I have at home.
We're sorry to hear there was a bad experience. I'm not aware of what happened, but sometimes people just rub each other the wrong way and don't get along. DM's and Player Advocates are available if you wish to talk to anyone. You can reach out to us on the forum or on Discord. We can't promise to fix every problem between people but we can listen and see where we can help. frc.proboards.com/thread/29375/meet-frc-staff-community-partners
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Post by Kiyohime π on Jan 18, 2023 14:53:03 GMT -5
I'm glad I left then, and I'm glad I've left again now. I don't know what kind of people are interested to be here anymore.
All I wished was to find a common space (not a "safe space", that's for the pusillanimous) to share. Instead what I found is absence of humor, deprivation of light-heartedness, and bitterness. This is not discouraging me from looking for more people I could join, because ultimately hope dies for last and everyone is different.
You just added more SH1T to the SH1T catalogue I have at home.
Man, do you really want to die on this hill? Sharing memes with Hitler is just not cool. It's not funny. Nazism wasn't and isn't a joke. A shame we didn't get to play together. Have a good life.
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Post by PhatDorf on Jan 18, 2023 15:05:06 GMT -5
You joined a discord, posted an offensive image, were asked not to by staff, and the conversation promptly moved along without lingering on it -- so you proceeded to get salty, and bring more drama and toxicity to somewhere more people would see it, the forum, and under this righteous pretense of just looking for a good time, and to be accepted.
Bruh.
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Jan 18, 2023 15:22:42 GMT -5
via mobile
Post by Asgardian Grey Hawk on Jan 18, 2023 15:22:42 GMT -5
I'm glad I left then, and I'm glad I've left again now. I don't know what kind of people are interested to be here anymore.
All I wished was to find a common space (not a "safe space", that's for the pusillanimous) to share. Instead what I found is absence of humor, deprivation of light-heartedness, and bitterness. This is not discouraging me from looking for more people I could join, because ultimately hope dies for last and everyone is different.
You just added more SH1T to the SH1T catalogue I have at home.
Man, do you really want to die on this hill? Sharing memes with Hitler is just not cool. It's not funny. Nazism wasn't and isn't a joke. A shame we didn't get to play together. Have a good life. I'm so sad I missed what they posted lol
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Post by DM Betelgeuse on Jan 18, 2023 15:57:53 GMT -5
Letβs not throw more fuel on the fire folks. The post is made, the appropriate replies have been given - letβs leave it to the player to make the move they wish to.
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