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Post by Dobian on May 3, 2018 23:09:58 GMT -5
Praying for you both.
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Post by gathera on May 4, 2018 3:37:31 GMT -5
My best wishes and prayers for you both.
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Post by Animayhem on May 4, 2018 9:57:55 GMT -5
Thanks everyone.
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Post by Animayhem on May 4, 2018 14:08:16 GMT -5
Well it is possible the hospital has done all it can. My mother and her husband have decided to transition to inpatient hospice then hopefully to home based.
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Post by DM Hawk on May 5, 2018 17:11:56 GMT -5
Thank you for sharing Animayhem, thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom.
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Post by Animayhem on May 5, 2018 18:03:44 GMT -5
Thank you for sharing Animayhem, thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom. Thank you all. She is still in the hospital but has been moved from ICU to the hospice wing.
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Post by Animayhem on May 8, 2018 15:07:16 GMT -5
Good news today. They took my mother outside and she spent a little over one hour in the sun and the garden. If she does well and they continue to take her out, it is a better chance to get her home.
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Post by Animayhem on May 10, 2018 9:45:13 GMT -5
Good news today. They took my mother outside and she spent a little over one hour in the sun and the garden. If she does well and they continue to take her out, it is a better chance to get her home. I hope, your mother will be ok very soon... Thank-you. However her condition is terminal meaning no cure. The best we can hope for is for her to be stable enough to spend what ever time she has left in her own hime.
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Post by Animayhem on May 10, 2018 20:17:50 GMT -5
My Mother will be discharged to her home later tomorrow the medical equipment and bed will be delivers so the house needs to be ready before she can come home. At least Mother's Day will be at her house.
How long she has in unknown. Although they were decent enough at the hospice, it felt like a living morgue.
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Post by nemusator on May 11, 2018 2:13:00 GMT -5
She is lucky to have daughter like you.
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Post by Animayhem on May 11, 2018 9:53:38 GMT -5
She is lucky to have daughter like you. Thank-you.. By the end of today, she will be discharged to her home Her husband was given instructions and will have more. Once the bed and equipment set up the she can leave. At least Mother's Day will not be in the hospital.
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Post by Animayhem on May 13, 2018 13:25:43 GMT -5
Well, I made my mom her Mother's Day card and now to go and get a small gift. She may not be totally aware but it is the thought that counts. Plus I made the card using one of her paintings.
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Post by Animayhem on May 13, 2018 18:53:49 GMT -5
Mother passed away today 4pm Seattle time, Two hours after we left. We saw her saturday and she was aware. She is at peace now and no longer suffering.
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Post by someonehaha on May 13, 2018 19:18:10 GMT -5
My condolences.
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Post by louballic2 on May 13, 2018 19:19:33 GMT -5
My condolences. Words are inadequate
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Post by grivel on May 13, 2018 19:46:22 GMT -5
Sorry for your loss. She has no more pain.
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Post by Deleted on May 13, 2018 19:54:56 GMT -5
Agreed, no words can express this. May you find comfort with your family and loved ones.
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Post by DM Hawk on May 13, 2018 22:18:26 GMT -5
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Animayhem.
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Post by amaru on May 13, 2018 22:42:30 GMT -5
*Hugs*
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Post by malclave on May 13, 2018 22:48:28 GMT -5
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by smacrasmacrasmacra on May 13, 2018 23:36:07 GMT -5
My condolences and sympathy, Ani.
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Post by gathera on May 13, 2018 23:50:21 GMT -5
My deepest sympathy for your loss. It is such a hard thing to loose a parent but through your memories they will always be with you.
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Post by nemusator on May 14, 2018 2:27:22 GMT -5
My condolences.
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Post by Defunct Fiddlesticks on May 14, 2018 3:09:14 GMT -5
Words can't express how sorry I am to read this, I hope memory and time combine to give you comfort in the days to come
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Post by Animayhem on May 28, 2018 14:06:28 GMT -5
Thank-you all for your support. I really appreciate it. I am slowly going through the grieving process. The tribute and picture have been sent to be posted on line. I was never much into jewelry so I finally got my ears pierced. When the healing process finished I will start wearing her earrings to honor her as well as some necklaces. Over the years I gave her birthstone earrings one for each month and she gave me birthstone rings one for each month.
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Post by louballic2 on May 28, 2018 19:23:58 GMT -5
you may not want to post a photo of yourself - being the internet and all - - but how about a closeup of an ear and earring?
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Post by Animayhem on May 28, 2018 22:43:08 GMT -5
Heh it is just a small hoop. I have the earrings in the center. I need to keep them in four to six weeks then I can wear actual ones.
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Post by Animayhem on May 29, 2018 13:18:47 GMT -5
The memorial has been posted so stage two of the grieving process completed.
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Post by Animayhem on Jul 17, 2018 14:19:43 GMT -5
I took the next step. I went through part of the jewelry and selected a few earrings and are now starting to wear them.
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